Joshua Graham: The Fictional Man who Helped Save my Faith

 In May 2020, as the Covid-19 pandemic spread fear and uncertainty across the globe, my life felt like it was unraveling. At just 15 years old, I was grappling with an overwhelming sense of isolation and doubt. The pandemic had not only disrupted my daily life but also caused me to lose many friends, and most importantly, my girlfriend, which only deepened my sense of despair. My faith, which had once been a cornerstone of my identity, was now teetering on the edge of collapse. Although I had been raised in an Evangelical tradition, my belief in anything, including Christianity, had become incredibly fragile. In this time of turmoil, I even began to identify as a Roman Catholic, but even that connection felt tenuous and uncertain. I was in a dark place, questioning everything I once held dear.

Joshua Graham

As someone who has always found solace in video games, I turned to them during this difficult time, hoping for a distraction from the chaos. It was then that I played the "Honest Hearts" DLC for Fallout: New Vegas, where I encountered Joshua Graham, a character whose story would unexpectedly resonate with me on a profound level. Graham, also known as "The Burned Man," was a former leader in Caesar's Legion, a man deeply scarred both physically and spiritually by his past. Despite everything he had endured—betrayal, torture, and near-death—Graham’s faith remained unshaken. His commitment to his beliefs, even when he had every reason to turn away, struck a chord deep within me.

One of the first quotes from Graham that deeply resonated with me was, "I survived because the fire inside burned brighter than the fire around me." This powerful statement captured the essence of Graham’s resilience and inner strength. Despite the literal and figurative flames that had consumed his life, Graham’s internal fire—his faith—burned brighter. It reminded me that even in my darkest moments, when it felt like the world was falling apart, there was still something within me that could endure. This quote inspired me to search for that inner strength and to hold onto the small spark of faith that still flickered within me, no matter how dim it seemed.

Another quote that struck a chord was, "We can't expect God to do all the work." This simple yet profound statement reminded me that faith is not passive; it requires action, effort, and responsibility. In the midst of my own doubts and fears, this quote encouraged me to take a more active role in my faith journey, rather than waiting for something external to restore my belief. It was a call to take ownership of my faith, to confront the challenges head-on, and to trust that my actions mattered in the process of rebuilding my spiritual foundation.

Graham’s declaration, "In my heart, I believe that though I am a sinner, I have been saved," also resonated deeply with me. This line encapsulated the essence of his unwavering faith. Despite all the wrongs he had committed, despite the violence and the blood on his hands, Graham still held onto the belief that he was saved. This resonated with me because, at that time, I was struggling with feelings of inadequacy and guilt, questioning whether I was worthy of faith or redemption. Graham's words reminded me that faith is not about being perfect; it’s about believing in salvation even when we feel unworthy.

His reflection on his spiritual journey, "I have been baptized twice, once in water, once in flame. I will carry the fire of the Holy Spirit inside until I stand before my Lord for judgment," further emphasized the depth of his faith. This imagery of carrying the fire of the Holy Spirit, despite the literal and metaphorical flames he had endured, symbolized the resilience of faith. Graham’s ability to hold onto this fire, despite the darkness of his past, inspired me to nurture the small flame of faith that still existed within me, even as I faced my own struggles.

Another of Graham’s quotes, "I don't enjoy killing, but when done righteously, it's just a chore, like any other," offered a glimpse into his complex morality. Despite his violent past, Graham approached his actions with a sense of righteousness and responsibility. This perspective challenged me to think about my own actions and decisions in a new light. It made me realize that faith is not always about making easy choices, but about doing what is right, even when it’s difficult.

Perhaps one of the most impactful moments in the "Honest Hearts" DLC is the monologue Graham delivers if the player convinces him to show mercy to Salt-Upon-Wounds, the war chief of the White Legs tribe. In this moment, Graham openly admits the depth of his anger and his desire for vengeance:

"I want to take from them what they took from me, from my family. In this life. I want them to suffer. I want them to die in fear and pain. I want to have my revenge. Against him. Against Caesar."

Here, Graham is brutally honest about his emotions, laying bare the raw, human desire for revenge that has been consuming him. This admission of his deepest, darkest feelings was incredibly powerful to me. It showed that even someone with as strong a faith as Graham could feel such intense anger and hatred. But the monologue doesn't end there—Graham then reflects on the nature of his anger and how it aligns with his faith:

"I want to call it my own, to make my anger God's anger. To justify the things I've done. Sometimes I tell myself that these wildfires never stop burning. But I'm the one who starts them. Not God. Not them."

This self-awareness, this recognition that his anger was not divine but human, struck me deeply. Not only was that something I was struggling with and could relate to, it was a moment of profound humility and introspection, where Graham acknowledges that his rage is his own burden, not a righteous fury sent by God. He admits that he is the one who has been fueling these wildfires of hatred and violence, not the people who wronged him, and certainly not God. This realization leads to one of the most poignant moments in the DLC, where Graham makes a conscious choice to show mercy:

"I can always see it in my mind. The warmth and the heat. It will always be a part of me. But not today. Go. Get out of here. Go back. Back to the Great Salt Lake."

This decision to spare Salt-Upon-Wounds, to rise above his desire for vengeance, is a powerful testament to the strength of Graham's faith. Despite the overwhelming temptation to give in to his anger, Graham chooses mercy. He leans into his faith, allowing it to guide him to a path of forgiveness rather than revenge. This moment resonated with me because it demonstrated that true strength in faith often comes from the ability to forgive, to let go of anger, and to choose a path of peace even when it's the harder choice.

When Graham finally says, "That's it. It's finished," there is a sense of closure, not just for the conflict with Salt-Upon-Wounds, but for the internal struggle Graham has been carrying for so long. It is a moment of liberation, where Graham is finally able to lay down the burden of his anger and find peace in his faith. This ending spoke to me on a personal level, as it encapsulated the journey of confronting and overcoming one's inner demons, something I was struggling with during that difficult time in my life.

The narrator's closing words in the game captured the transformation that Graham underwent and the impact that mercy had on him:

"The threat of the White Legs ended, Joshua Graham helped the Sorrows and Dead Horses tend to their fallen comrades and secure Zion. The Courier's words had stayed Joshua's wrath in his darkest hour, and in sparing Salt-Upon-Wounds, he was changed. While he continued to advocate militant opposition to the enemies of New Canaan, he sometimes showed quarter to those who crossed his family. Eventually, this new spirit would diminish the myth of the Burned Man in distant lands - a small price for the peace it brought to Joshua Graham."

This narrative resolution resonated deeply with me, as it mirrored the internal changes I sought within myself. Graham’s ability to temper his wrath with mercy, to allow his faith to guide him even when his instincts screamed for vengeance, demonstrated the profound strength that true faith can provide. It showed me that faith isn't just about adhering to beliefs; it's about letting those beliefs shape and refine you, even in your most difficult moments.

Throughout the "Honest Hearts" DLC, Joshua Graham’s faith remained steadfast despite everything he had been through. He had every reason to abandon his beliefs—betrayed, burned alive, and left for dead—yet he continued to cling to his faith with a fierce determination. His story showed me that faith can endure even in the face of overwhelming doubt and suffering. It taught me that faith is not about never questioning or struggling; it’s about holding onto belief even when everything else seems to be falling apart.

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